Good hygiene is part of care. It keeps the focus on comfort instead of preventable irritation or worry.
The basics are simple: clean hands, trimmed nails, clean towels, gentle products, and a willingness to stop if anything feels wrong.
Hands and nails
Wash hands thoroughly and trim or smooth nails. Small rough edges can feel sharp on sensitive tissue.
Remove rings or anything that might scratch or distract.
Products
Choose a product labelled for its intended use. Do not use oil-based products with latex condoms, and stop using anything that stings or causes irritation.
If irritation appears, stop and rinse gently. Do not continue through discomfort.
Know when not to proceed
Pain, burning, infection symptoms, or unresolved medical concerns should be handled by a qualified professional.
Yoni massage is not a way to treat medical issues.
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